Timeline
Approximate Planning schedule leading up to the wedding and day of wedding.
12-6 months before
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Attend engagement party
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Register for wedding gifts
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Contact wedding planner with requests, options, suggestions.
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Figure out budget for the wedding
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Make List of attendees
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Reserve Venue(s), officiant, DJ/Band, Photographer, Videographer, Photobooth
5-2 Months
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Buy wedding dress
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Reserve tux rental
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Pick bridal party - go with them for dress/ tux fittings
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Reserve flowers
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Purchase bridal accessories
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Purchase items for wedding ceremony/reception (cake cutter, unity candle, guest book, etc.)
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Attend menu tasting and decide on menu selections
1-2 Months Before
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Attend bridal shower
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Schedule hair, make-up, and nail appointments
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Make centerpieces, favors, homemade paper-goods, etc.
2 Weeks Before
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Attend bachelor & bachelorette parties
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Preview list and purchase any last minute items for wedding
1 Week Before
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Provide final count to venue of guests
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Finalize seating chart for reception and order seating chart poster
2 Days Before
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Drop off all reception favors, table centerpieces, cake knife, toasting goblets, candles, etc. at reception venue so they can be set up prior to reception
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Confirm early meeting times with bridal party for the wedding day and rehersal
Day Before
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Attend rehearsal & rehersal dinner
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Groom pic up tux from rental shop
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Give parents and attendents gifts at rehersal dinner
Day of Wedding (Prior to Ceremony)
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Eat breakfast
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Get hair and make-up done at salon
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Relax
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Family & candid pictures at home
Ceremony & Reception Breakdown
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3:45 – 4:00 Pre-Wedding Music / Guests Arrive (“Pachelbel’s Canon” – Johann Pachelbel)
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4:01–4:05 Groom and Best Man take positions ( "A Thousand Years" - Classical Instrumental (originally Christina Perri))
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4:05 Procession Begins (“Romeo and Juliet: Love Theme” - Arthur Fiedler and Boston Pops Orchestra) - Bridesmaids, Maid of Honor, Ring Bearer, Coin Bearer, Flower Girl
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4:10 Entrance of Bride (Wagner: Lohengrin / Act 3 - Prelude to Act III - Bridal Chorus)
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4:11 Bride and Father of the Bride Proceed
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4:15 All attendants turn toward Officiant to begin
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4:16 The Invocation by officiant
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4:18 The Scripture Lesson -- Book of Bible Chapter
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4:25 The Wedding Message
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4:30 Marriage vows, exchange rings, Declarations of marriage
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4:35 Officiant Pronounces Couple “Kiss Your Bride”'
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4:41 Lighting of the Unity Candle ("Sleepers Awake!" - Bach)
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4:43 The Prayers
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4:45 The Lord's Prayer
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4:48 The Benediction
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4:50 Introduction of the Married Couple
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4:52 Recessional Music - Reverse order of Procession ("Wedding March" - Mendelssohn)
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4:55–5:15 Receiving Line
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5:16-5:45 Church Pictures
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6:00 Guests enter Cocktail Hour at venue (Beach Boys - Greatest Hits)
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6:15 Pictures with Couple, Attendants, and Parents
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6:50 Guests Begin To Enter Reception Hall for cocktail hour ("Crazy Little Thing Called Love" - Queen, "Beautiful Day" - U2, "Wouldn't It Be Nice" - The Beach Boys)
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7:00 Bridal Party Introductions ("I Believe in a Thing Called Love" - The Darkness)
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7:05 Mr. & Mrs. Announcement ("Just the Way You Are" - Bruno Mars)
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7:15 Best Man Toast
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7:30 Buffet - Style Dinner – Table by Table (Frank Sinatra - Greatest Hits)
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8:15 Dancing - Couple’s First Dance (“Somewhere Over the Rainbow” – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole)
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9:03 Bride/Father and Groom/Mother Dance ("God Only Knows" - The Beach Boys),
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9:06 Bride/Brother and Groom/Sister Dance ("I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack)
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9:30 Cake Cutting and Distribution ("I Got You Babe" - Sonny and Cher)
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10:00 Garter Removal and Toss (Mission Impossible Theme Song)
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10:05 Bouquet Toss ("One Way Or Another" – Blondie)
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10:55 Last Dance ("Don’t Stop Believin'" - Journey )
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11:00 Reception Ends, guests leave for home or after party
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11:15 - 2:00 After Party starts at Holiday Inn lobby area for cocktails
After the Wedding (if requested)
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Drop off wedding dress at cleaners
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Return Groom’s formalwear attire
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Arrange for pressing of flowers
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Send wedding announcement to the newspaper
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Send thank you cards for gifts & sent out change of address cards
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Ensure that Bride and Groom receive marriage license