You Were Asked to be the Best Man, Now What?

Congratulations, you are going to be the Best Man at your loved one’s wedding. Whether they are a friend or family member this is an exciting time in both of your lives. If you have never had this honor bestowed upon you before you might not know what is expected of you, here is a list of the main responsibilities you now hold as the Best Man:

- Organizes a bachelor party for the groom

- Coordinates the ushers’ gift to the groom. Usually gives an individual gift to the couple

- Is expected to attend the rehearsal and is included in the rehearsal dinner

- Gets the groom dressed and to the ceremony on time

- Makes sure the groom’s wedding related expenses are prepared (officiant fee, tips, etc.)

- Makes sure the groom has the marriage license with him

- Delivers any payment to officiant, sexton, and ceremony musician(s), as prearranged

- Enters the sanctuary with the groom

- Takes care of and holds the bride’s wedding ring

- Makes sure all ushers and properly attired and in place on time

- Walks in the recessional

- Witnesses the signing of the marriage certificate

- Drives the bride and groom to reception, if no driver is hired

- Helps welcome guests at reception

- Offers first toast to bride and groom at reception

- Dances with the bride, maid of honor, mothers, and single female guests

- Gathers up and takes care of groom’s wedding clothes if he changes

Of course weddings vary based on budget, location, and traditions so there are some items that would be added or taken off based on the particular groom.

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Kerry is a certified wedding planner and blogger who completed her Wedding and Event Planning Certification through Temple University.

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